You make some perfectly reasonable points :)
The problem I can see with a bo3 warning is, that to incorporate such a warning onto an online game would be too difficult. If you put in a system which targets players who consistently don't play bo3, then this would mean there has to be a cut off point (maybe 20 games in a row). The problem with this is that this is easily avoidable by playing 19 games - leaving each time - and on the 20th game playing a bo3.
If the system was modifed slightly, let's say a total of 100 games where the player has not played bo3 means a player receives a !, then this would be unfair on those who keep their nickname for long periods, for instance, I could have played 100 non bo3 games in my 2 and a half years on FOD, someone who has been here 1 week could play 100 games and be branded a "runner" just like myself with no consideration for time periods.
>1 win in my book still=0 but when you can best at least 3 games with other player, then you got something going for ya
And I agree totally with you. But not everyone runs from a game and brags about their skill, a lot of people do it merely to chase points and this is just something that needs to be accepted in an online game :p
I still think that running should never be a punishable offence. There are just too many variables involved in determining whether someone has left for a 'legitimate' reason and I wouldn't want to be punished for leaving a game because something has come up in real life if it was against the rules.
The bo3 button is a system which is possible (And has been discussed many times on this forum). I would never use such a system myself, just because I can never guarantee playing 3 games with someone, but, if a system was brought in which addresses many of the issues involved - such as what happens if someone disconnects, what happens if someone leaves after a game etc. then I would welcome it. I have a feeling that the majority wouldn't use it, ~70% of the people I challange run anyway, but it would be a suitable solution to those people who want to play bo3 regularly :D
Sorry for the long post but it's ever so
slightly
refreshing to see a good debateable topic on here :p