How did he put you off, was he standing behind you nudging your mouse arm? Ever heard of gamesmanship? If it's just a game, why do you moan so much?
Look VO, be honest with yourself. I've played you and have seen you with others - you always seem to start off with confrontation. Sure, if someone doesn't bite you are okay with them, but it's unfair to suggest that people pick on you when you are often the instigator. You also don't like losing, and are less than pleasant when things don't go your way. You have earnt your reputation mate, and you have to live with it. The best advice for you is that you listen to your own words -
ITS ONLY A GAME M8
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