Online world mustn't be a substitute for real, we all really must be careful.
Online, seems like including different things,and seems like offering different,possible fantasies,inside our imagination,close to the borders of reality.I see that i have transfered some search of emotional satisfaction,from real,to online.I have had a big desire for playing pool excellent, and i transfered it from real to online, and after that, transfering other searches happened, like finding partner.
(If you read this streamline, i hope u see i mean only my sympathy, you have been an image for me for 2 years,i like you a lot)
Yes, the solution is spending proper time here, and not forgetting reality.Not taking this environment very serius and it wont mean any disrespect to any1,just the game, as the name of the player 'notchatroom'.After all i like here, but should be limited.
I think if i am exagerrating or not..an example can tell better , u talk with a girl, u start to like her and she seems she likes u too,at a point she asks , 'why me?'.Some 1 tell me what is this.I tell you, it is the side of Online, that can make u uncomfortable.In reality there is not a question like this.Why's are all explained inside the things,but here ..its tiring.
I dont want to be seen like,i ve discovered a worldwide problem and exagerrating it..
I am aware of some things peculiar for me can make me think like that, so its very true, totally up to each person.Our choice will arrange everything in a better shape.
I think kids that live this technology age from little, will live this more easier, i ve found myself in Online after passing childhood, and replaced the search of fun here,with some tries in reality,we must all be very careful about it.
This is something makes me uncomfortable and i wanted to share with you, there is a saying ' u see everyone like u see yourself',so maybe i thought there are some other people thinking such things.
Here its possible to meet lots of people from all over the world who may have infinite type of concerns, personalities, getting involved too much be very tiring and can cause to be unnecesserily misused,inside baseless dreams and angers.
Maybe one day i will be coming online for job , and it will be seen to me totally different i know.For now , for the ones who come here just for fun,think your life,the ambitions of you,things you want to reach, and in a day,if you completed the time for that, then come here, if there are other things left, dont come here.
And dont take people very serius, dont believe everything u observe,its understood with experience.Also, stay away enough that, 'not taking serius' will not enlarge and u will start not to take serius the things that u must take serius.
Regards ,to everyone, who are like me, nothing to ones who are more like a software than human, and regrets to some times when i had been like a software.