Thank you for your reply.  
I do try and overlook some comments , mostly rude comments made by players who are losing at whatever game we are in-  this one just made me angry enough to send a notice to you.

some players just say so. It has no importance whatsoever.
Please mute players who are harassing you.
Or if they insult you - report and mute

what if I do not have a program, never had one, don't know how to get one, and a loser player states I do have a program..amalexa says their testers are accurate and mine tested for program..

Hallo ROADRUNNER,
das rote Ausrufezeichen bedeutet, dass dieser Spieler/ diese Spielerin ein Programm benutzt. (das ist bei Brettspielen erlaubt, wird aber mit diesem roten Ausrufezeichen kenntlich gemacht)
Freundliche Grüße und ein schönes Wochenende,
John